After going through a divorce, it can be tempting to move away and find a new job and a new life. However, moving can be more complicated when you have children, especially if you want to move to another state. Unfortunately, you cannot simply pick up and move with kids after a divorce. At least, the process is a little more complicated than packing up boxes and buying a home in another state. However, it is not impossible to move with kids after a divorce. Continue reading to learn more about how you can relocate while also retaining custody of your children.

How To Move With Kids After A Divorce

The process of moving out of state with kids after divorce requires a lot of communication and legal counsel. It is important to note that custodial parents that are currently located in Utah cannot move out of the state with out the permission of either the child’s noncustodial parent or the court. Utah state law states that custodial parents may not relocate more than 150 miles away from their children’s noncustodial parent without the noncustodial parent’s consent or through a court order.

Gain Parental Permission

The simplest way for a custodial parent to relocate would be through obtaining the permission of the noncustodial parent. Many times, if individuals are on good terms with their ex-spouse, then they will communicate the plan to move to another state or area and then come up with a custody and parenting time distribution agreement. Even if you come up with a system that will work for both parents, you must still go before a judge to acquire the proper approval for relocation.

Get A Court Order

The other way to move with kids after a divorce is to get a court order. There may be instances in which a custodial parent may not be in direct contact with their child’s other parent or where they are unable to come to a consensus. If a custodial parent is still wanting to move they can formally request relocation with the court and notify the other parent. The notification must be posted 60 days before the planned moving date.

If the other parent contests the moving request, a judge will decide whether the move would be appropriate. The judge will make several considerations including the reasoning for the move, what is in the best interest for the child, and how the move would impact the relationship between the child and either parents. If the relocation is approved, a modified child custody agreement will be arranged.

Divorce Papers

In some cases, parents will have already discussed relocation arrangements while in the divorce process. If this is the case, and the parents have agreed upon moving plans, then they will simply have to go before a judge and acquire formal approval. If things have changed and one parent is no longer comfortable with an arrangement, then they may have to get a court order and go through that process. Divorce decrees are important for when there is a dispute such as this, so obtain a divorce decree once your divorce settles.

Contact Us For Expert Legal Advice

We at Kaufman, Nicholas & Kaufman offer expert legal advice to those that are experiencing divorce and the repercussions that can come after completing the divorce process. Our attorneys are experienced and knowledgeable and are passionate about helping individuals improve their lives, protect their assets and their children, and be able to move forward with confidence. We also provide legal advice and assistance for other issues surrounding divorce and family law. For more information, reach out to us today.

If you are worried that your spouse is a narcissist, it can be difficult to know what to do. It can be difficult in the early stages of a relationship to distinguish whether your partner is narcissistic or if they are simply having a bad day. But over time, narcissist signs will become more apparent. Take this test to find out if your spouse is a narcissist. For some examples of narcissistic personality disorder, continue reading.

Signs Your Spouse Is A Narcissist

There are many different signs that can help your tell if your spouse is a narcissist. It is important to note that these isolated signs are not good indicators of a narcissistic personality and that narcissistic personality disorder can only be diagnosed by a mental health professional. That being said, if you notice these things, it will still be unpleasant. It may be a good idea to speak to a mental health professional if these signs become apparent and a lawyer if you are considering divorce.

They Constantly Put You Down

If you are dating or married to someone that puts you down constantly, they could be a narcissist. If you feel inadequate despite having great accomplishments and you feel that your spouse is constantly making negative comments about you, how you look, and your accomplishments, your spouse could be a narcissist. Your spouse will be very critical of you. They will make comments about your appearance including your hair, weight, and clothing. A narcissist will also be critical of your decisions, making you become doubtful of yourself. They will also be very critical of other people, especially people that they view themselves as superior to.

They Are Manipulative

Another important sign of a narcissistic personality is that they will be very manipulative. They will use subtle threats to make you do what they want. You will feel like if you disagree with them or do something that they do not want then something bad will happen. It will feel like you are walking on eggshells around them. You will constantly be trying to make them happy and avoid them becoming angry or upset.

You Will Feel Gaslighted

Another way to tell if your spouse is a narcissist is if you feel like your sense of reality is different since being with them. When you try to tell them that you didn’t like how something happened, they will tell you that it didn’t happen that way and that you remembered wrong. You will start to question if you are wrong or if you may be going crazy because you cannot remember things correctly.

Essentially, your spouse will lie to you and try to manipulate your reality. Your spouse will likely also try to do this with your family members and friends in order to isolate you from them. Another sign that your spouse may be a narcissist is that your family and friends will tell you that they do not like your spouse or they will be completely oblivious because they have been lied to by your spouse.

There Is A Huge Disconnect

One of the best ways to tell if your spouse is a narcissist is whether you feel connected to them. In a relationship with a narcissistic spouse, you will feel unloved. In the beginning of your relationship, they will make you feel special and like you are the greatest person ever. This is called love bombing. However, overtime they will start to withdraw as things get hard and they become difficult to rely on. Your needs will be ignored as well as the needs of any children that come out of your relationship. They will constantly be thinking about themselves and will hardly ever show interest in you or your life.

Is Your Spouse A Narcissist?

If your spouse is displaying narcissistic qualities, you may have considered getting divorced. Divorce can be difficult, but you do not have to go through it alone. We at Kaufman, Nichols, & Kaufman will be here to assist you and help you get through the litigation process as swiftly and easily as possible. For more information, feel free to reach out to us today.

Being a father is a special relationship that is extremely important to both the child and the father. As a father, one of your worst fears is to lose your children. If you are facing the prospect of divorce or are looking to gain custody of your child, it is important to know what your father’s rights are. Continue reading to learn several facts about your rights to your child.

Laws Are Different In Each State

The first thing that is important to understand about your rights as a father is that there are different laws regarding child custody depending on which state you are located in. As our law firm is located in Utah, our information is primarily based on Utah law. However, it is important to note that the court does NOT favor the mother in any court. The court’s job is to act in the best interest of the child. In most states, a married father and mother will have joint guardianship and equal rights to their children.

Certain Attributes May Make A Parent Unfit For Custody

Because the court’s purpose is to ensure that the child is properly protected and is given the very best situation possible, information regarding the unfitness of a parent is serious. Understanding what may make you unfit for custody is important. Always make sure to set age-appropriate boundaries with your child and respond to your child’s needs.

An important part of being fit for child custody is being involved in your child’s life. Your track record of looking out for your child is important as is your child’s comfortability. Of course, if a parent has issues with substance abuse or has exposed the child to domestic violence or abuse, then it is unlikely that they will be given custody or visitation rights.

There Are Different Laws Based On Marriage Status

However, marriage status also has an impact on your rights to custody. According to Utah law, no matter how fit you are for the custody of your children, if you and your child’s mother are unmarried, primary custody will fall to her. But do not despair, if you establish paternity at the time of your child’s birth or before, then you can seek legal visitation rights or custody of your child. Unmarried fathers that are interested in having rights to their child should make sure that their names are listed on the birth certificate at or before the time of birth.

If a father’s paternity was not established at the time of birth, a father can take a paternity test. At this point, a father’s right to custody will be in question until his suitability as a parent has been determined. This is where fitness for custody becomes important again.

Child Support

Firstly, if parents are unmarried, a father will need to sign a Voluntary Declaration of Paternity in order to gain rights to their child and in order to put a child support order into place. Child support is typically paid by the non-custodial parent. This is the parent that does not have physical custody of the child or has the child for the least amount of time. If a father wants to gain physical custody or full custody of their child, it is important that they have been paying their child support payments.

Do You Need Help Protecting Your Father’s Rights?

If you are looking for representation for your divorce case, we at Kaufman, Nichols, & Kaufman would be happy to be of service for you. We have a team of experienced attorneys who are prepared to fight for you and your rights as a father. We understand that there are many complex and delicate issues that need to be ironed out in a divorce, and that is why you need a professional divorce attorney with expertise in parent’s rights. If you have any questions or are interested in learning more about our services, feel free to reach out to us today.

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